Posted by koadah on 2015-05-21 21:55:41
You do seem to have one or two other teams that you could use.
If it is such a big deal get the game canceled.
Posted by PurpleChest on 2015-05-21 22:43:02
sorry but RL does trump online games. If some friend came around yours unexpectedly would you really say 'just sit for 45 mins while i finish this'?
If you would, and they'd be fine with it, then i need better friends.
Posted by pythrr on 2015-05-21 22:47:10
some people are dicks.
Posted by JimmyFantastic on 2015-05-21 23:05:56
I've made one of my mates wait while I finished a game haha.
Posted by Wreckage on 2015-05-21 23:25:34
I'm with you. The proper thing to do for him would be to conceed but the administration prevents that. It's pretty much their fault. Ah well, nothing that can be done about it.
Posted by Woodstock on 2015-05-22 00:31:55
He could also drop without a word and you would still need to follow the disconnection rules. So no clue why he would need to concede, or why the admins would be involved in the first place.
Posted by C3I2 on 2015-05-22 00:32:16
Since my friends are gamers, they all just wait for me to finish. Its fairly hard to explain to my mother though, when I ask here to wait, or call later....
Posted by pubstar on 2015-05-22 00:34:06
If somebody comes around my place unannounced, one of the risks they are accepting is that I am busy. Seems civil enough. Finish your matches all at once unless there's an emergency.
Posted by mrt1212 on 2015-05-22 01:15:48
I hate to say it but...
If you can't dedicate the 90 minutes to play either
1. Don't play
2. Be sure you tell your opponent beforehand that you may become unavailable via PM if you're using Ragefinder, or try and get scheduled with me because I can wait.
3. If it's an emergency, most of us have hearts, we will understand. Friend coming over to show you a bong isn't an emergency.
Posted by koadah on 2015-05-22 07:11:42
Don't worry dudes. I don't think I'll be playing in the 'competitive' divisions again.
Posted by the_Sage on 2015-05-22 10:07:05
I really really try not to do this, and when I do, I apologize profusely. When people do this and do not make an effort to accomodate the victim in rescheduling, I really think it should be admin-conceded, rather than cancelled or merely ended.
Posted by CanvasBack on 2015-05-22 10:56:14
Some of you seem to be adding facts... not surprising really. My biggest problem was with the manner in which this was done. I was asked a question, to which I responded with a question, and then had to wait around 10 minutes for a response. On what planet is that normal behavior?
I don't want a concession, I want to finish but between league games I've scheduled and league games I can't track down the play on or barely miss being on line it becomes something of a chore. And I don't want my online gaming to feel like a chore and the chaos factor of playing these games needs to remain on the virtual table top.
Posted by koadah on 2015-05-22 11:15:40
It is a disconnection. The procedure is clear.
https://fumbbl.com/help:DisconnectionProblems
If the coach does it too often the admins will be dealing with him.
As you said league/tournament games take priority. Depending on how busy you both are, possible time differences etc the game may well not get done.
It would be nice to get it done but it is "just a game". Isn't it?
Posted by Wreckage on 2015-05-22 14:05:13
'He could also drop without a word and you would still need to follow the disconnection rules. So no clue why he would need to concede, or why the admins would be involved in the first place.'
He could also spend all day on gamefinder and try to start one game after another without ever playing any. Doesn't make it the proper thing to do.
Same with the admins, they may not get involved and when they get involved it may be only to sanction such a concession. Yet there is nothing proper about it.
When there are two nice people who are trying to arrange themselves with each other, while trying to handle their various obligations, there should be a fair way to do it. All I'm sayin'.