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2013-11-17 12:49:10
18 votes, rating 5.1
18 votes, rating 5.1
Anger Management
I'm almost sure that success in Blood Bowl is related with anger management.
We all get bad dice but...
If you get angry then you play worse, lose opportunities and at the end it feels that you are getting worse dice so you get yourself inside the losing spiral.
If you manage to control your anger and keep calm suddenly dice even and you are in the success path again.
So I've found that when I have trouble in job, at home and the like,... it's the worse moment to come to fumbbl because then it's difficult to control anger, but when you are in trouble is when you most need a distraction to disconnect a little bit... so... what to do?
Just thinking loud....
Identifying the problem is the 1st step to solving it.
We all get bad dice but...
If you get angry then you play worse, lose opportunities and at the end it feels that you are getting worse dice so you get yourself inside the losing spiral.
If you manage to control your anger and keep calm suddenly dice even and you are in the success path again.
So I've found that when I have trouble in job, at home and the like,... it's the worse moment to come to fumbbl because then it's difficult to control anger, but when you are in trouble is when you most need a distraction to disconnect a little bit... so... what to do?
Just thinking loud....
Identifying the problem is the 1st step to solving it.
Comments
Posted by PigStar-69 on 2013-11-17 13:11:11
bollocks :-)
Posted by BillBrasky on 2013-11-17 13:24:08
Well when alcohol gets involved (every blood bowl match), I have the same problem.
Outside of that, I have learned the lesson in life you are preaching.
Panicking leads to mistakes. Be the Iceman. Think, and respond. Panic leads only to either freezing up, or over-reacting.
Outside of that, I have learned the lesson in life you are preaching.
Panicking leads to mistakes. Be the Iceman. Think, and respond. Panic leads only to either freezing up, or over-reacting.
Posted by JimmyFantastic on 2013-11-17 13:30:13
Iceman! Yeah it's like going on tilt in poker.
Posted by happygrue on 2013-11-17 13:43:42
I agree anisdrin. I often regret trying to get a game in at a bad time or in a bad mood - good results usually do not follow unless I get lucky.
Running out of mental energy reducing performance is the main point made by this book: http://www.amazon.com/Willpower-Rediscovering-Greatest-Human-Strength/dp/0143122231
And this one is also interesting and related as well: http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-Habit-What-Business/dp/1400069289
They are not "self help" books (despite their titles), but rather a blend of psychology and anecdotes written in an easy manner. They are both fun and interesting reads. The first in particular has had an impact on how/when I'll play BB. ;)
Running out of mental energy reducing performance is the main point made by this book: http://www.amazon.com/Willpower-Rediscovering-Greatest-Human-Strength/dp/0143122231
And this one is also interesting and related as well: http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-Habit-What-Business/dp/1400069289
They are not "self help" books (despite their titles), but rather a blend of psychology and anecdotes written in an easy manner. They are both fun and interesting reads. The first in particular has had an impact on how/when I'll play BB. ;)
Posted by SzieberthAdam on 2013-11-17 13:48:14
Decide the right scenario, and start rolling it through, that all you can do.
Posted by PigStar-69 on 2013-11-17 14:07:52
still bollocks
Posted by Throweck on 2013-11-17 14:09:53
The worst thing is when after you have a bad game which sets off your mood, you decide to get another one in. Hence the next game will be so much better. It's not. Repeat cycle until meltdown ensues.
Best lesson I learnt was closing down the laptop in these situations.
In fact, it was so hard to do sometimes I could have had an 80's martial arts training montage type thing to go with it. Jean Claude Van Damme style.
Best lesson I learnt was closing down the laptop in these situations.
In fact, it was so hard to do sometimes I could have had an 80's martial arts training montage type thing to go with it. Jean Claude Van Damme style.
Posted by NickNutria on 2013-11-17 14:14:59
I agree with anisdrin, in the past after a bad game I had to prove to myself that I could win and played on in a bad mood. This lead to several losts in a row. Whenever I'm relaxed, I play a lot better, I don't have to win and can enjoy the game and therefore win a lot more games.
Posted by Sammler_der_Seelen on 2013-11-17 15:16:01
good point here,i would say play a bit stunty on these bad days.Its always a challenge and you may be have a bit fun with ttm little guys all over the pitch ;-)
Posted by koadah on 2013-11-17 16:18:33
Fair point. I have pretty much dumped scheduled matches. Have never even played the Fumbbl Cup.
Having to play at a time when I'm not really up for it versus an opponent who also may not be up for it is not my idea of fum.
Open leagues FTW! \O/
Having to play at a time when I'm not really up for it versus an opponent who also may not be up for it is not my idea of fum.
Open leagues FTW! \O/
Posted by Sp00keh on 2013-11-17 16:50:10
sometimes u dont really have time for a match and try to play anyway, distracted and rushed. so u do badly
its better to have some other game u can play for a bit, I'm currently play saints row 4 for example
its better to have some other game u can play for a bit, I'm currently play saints row 4 for example
Posted by ThePeoplesChamp on 2013-11-17 17:17:03
Judging by your recent spate of in game meltdowns this thread has been a long time coming. If you were a more pleasant opponent people would respect you much more.
Posted by Overhamsteren on 2013-11-17 19:20:27
These days I usually watch a movie or series when I feel the desire to play a game and be distracted but really doesn't have the mindset to take a loss without getting angry.
Posted by PaddyMick on 2013-11-17 20:22:51
Recommending reading: Jared Tandler (think that's his name) a poker phsychology coach
Posted by MattDakka on 2013-11-18 04:45:33
Jared Tendler.
Posted by paradocks on 2013-11-18 09:41:44
The only real solution to your problem here is to grow as a person, no amount of coaching skill or experience can help you.
Posted by bghandras on 2013-11-18 10:13:42
In life pain is guaranteed, but suffering is optional.
Hope this helps. :)
Hope this helps. :)
Posted by Cryptborn on 2013-11-18 13:05:34
In poker they call that "going on tilt" heh.
I agree with you.
I agree with you.